Good Conversation......

I would like to consider my self what most people call sensitive or easily stimulated. Yep, what you just read, that's pretty dramatic!? Anyway, to the point of this post, as humans we always find it easier to kick and scream our way through life, especially in unpleasant moments. It is probably easier to use our emotions to rid ourselves of the "feelings" then to ponder on what is actually going on.  I know how this sounds, but listen, this is just a bit of learned advice that I would like to share - smile.  A lot of times, if not all of the time our emotions make our lives what they are. Are you with me?  This resonates with me specifically because of what you read in the beginning of this post.  When you are a person who "feels" everything it is very necessary to be patient with curve balls that come to "wake us" in life.  There are specific reasons for everything.  Be honest with your s...

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...

I am not going to start this off like I am a therapist and say "life is blah blah blah".  I am going to ask you to : Just take a moment and think of anything good that has happened to you or anyone/thing that truly means the world to you and let it/that manifest itself as your strength! Individually we all have had ups and downs and have gone through what can make us or break us. I personally have been forced to change.  Yes, I said it ! My life has forced me to become aggressive and more of a leader. Its OK because I accept that. Now all  that I have to do is figure out how I can make the change GREAT ! Don't despair when life tells you that its time for a change. Grab hold to it as if it were a locomotive transition to a better you! Make everything you do great by embracing change to its fullest!  Remember there will be joy, there will be pain , there will be disappointments and there will be times of tribulation but its only a transition to a bet...

When is it time to break away from the protective arms of our parents into this cruel and defiant world? Is there a time frame or is it different for everyone? Guess what, your opportunity depends on how soon you jump in or....out lol!! We often wonder why animals push or in some instances leave their young. Its simple, experience is the best teacher ! You have to get out there and break away in order to develop your own sense of life and living. So the longer you let your parents lead your life the harder it will be for you to  gain REAL control of your life!!  Trust me,  experience  has taught me this very important life lesson!!! Don't get me wrong here, parents are always good teachers but experience always has a result that we can learn first hand from; this allows us to become our OWN person!  Its like a seed:  you plant it, tend to and nurture it but when the time is right you ...