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My Mission Statement : The True Maturity Today is June 14, 2014! I am aware and alive !! It is the most wonderful thing that I have had happen to me, in my entire life! I know how much this existence is worth and I refuse to take any part of it for granted!                                                 CALL ME CRAZY but let it give me freedom...... In my world there is magic and it brings everything to life. All things that I see, hear, touch and feel in my space are of importance and have significance to my position at any given moment. If I continue to move until I reach my last,                                                 I am sure to live my life in fulfillment! Love lots, Dee

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...

I am not going to start this off like I am a therapist and say "life is blah blah blah".  I am going to ask you to : Just take a moment and think of anything good that has happened to you or anyone/thing that truly means the world to you and let it/that manifest itself as your strength! Individually we all have had ups and downs and have gone through what can make us or break us. I personally have been forced to change.  Yes, I said it ! My life has forced me to become aggressive and more of a leader. Its OK because I accept that. Now all  that I have to do is figure out how I can make the change GREAT ! Don't despair when life tells you that its time for a change. Grab hold to it as if it were a locomotive transition to a better you! Make everything you do great by embracing change to its fullest!  Remember there will be joy, there will be pain , there will be disappointments and there will be times of tribulation but its only a transition to a bet...

People often complain about what they don't have and what is not enough, not realizing that the simplest things can be compromised and cripple us for life..... What have you taken advantage of today, what could have been worse but turned out "Well Enough" ! Be thankful. ...recognize Gods Grace upon Your life Today!!!  Love Lots, Dee

As moms, moguls, divas, entrepreneurs, wives or just us plain Jane's; we are busy as women of today. We often take very little time for ourselves. Whether its taking care of kids, event planning or getting ready for a power meeting we have almost no time if any to take a deep breath and clear our minds. I have come to the conclusion that without out a meditation session or just a day of home stay can leave us near our wits end or even worse, post nervous breakdown. Take a break , listen to your body when it tells you that you need to rest. Listen to your mind when you start to ramble your thoughts. Its  OK , especially since in order to conquer all that you dream of, you must be sane, of appropriate health and fired up to do it all....so "I say love yourself enough to enjoy a little of YOUR life". till Next time! Dee

People always confuse the more is more scenario, thinking that less could not possibly satisfy them, when they actually have everything that they need. Have you ever heard that person who complains about everything, even down to the very air that they must "unfortunately" breathe. That is just a sign of a person who will "never" be satisfied which is besides the point and another topic :).  Today I came out to my porch, looked up into the sky and thought of all the wonderful things that I have to be grateful for. Of course I have issues, everyone does!! Its factual that all bad or even good things can be worse. That being said.....Its important that we VALUE the present and every ounce of GOOD that exists in our lives or we could find ourselves forever trapped by the burdens of our own greediness. Love lots Dee  ...Next time.

By the time most of us are considered "Grown Up" we are molded into the person that we will be as an "adult". The things that we have learned can then be passed on to our children and our children's children. One of those things that I have learned about is the power of trust!  That its the one word can break the toughest of bonds and shatter the best of relationships. Blood cannot change the rules either, once you lose the trust of a loved one you can either choose to let go or work tremendously hard to get it back. One thing that confuses me though is the fact that  guilt  can mimic a lack of trust. A persons guilt can rot their heart; poisoning their minds into believing that whatever they have done to others will eventually happen to them. So a long history of paranoia, worrying, skepticism and never ending doubt is their life sentence. Unfortunately, this hurts the one who really loves them and eventua...

As much as we see dead beat dads and run away fathers it is sometimes hard to see and remember that their are Great fathers and figures out there. Sometimes I get so bogged down by the negativity that is promoted almost w/o consciousness. I know that there are some bad dads out there but lets do our best to build up instead always tearing down! XOXOXOX Next time!!!