Good Conversation......

Finding LOVE is not easy when you have a hopeless mindset which was brought on by being hurt and mistreated in previous relationships. The most important thing to do is give your self time to heal!!! This is the most important part. Allowing time to process and digest the fact that the previous relationship is really over makes more room for new feelings and new interest!  Its like moving into a new place that has all of the old families belongings still on the premises.  Clean house and you'd be more apt to find a serious love interest. People who have been burned are easy to spot, so its almost guaranteed that any person that you may be schmoozing up to can tell that your damaged goods before you can even get close enough to say "Boo". Get clear on exactly what it is that you are looking for. Some people don't even know what they want but wonder what they can't find fulfillm...

People always confuse the more is more scenario, thinking that less could not possibly satisfy them, when they actually have everything that they need. Have you ever heard that person who complains about everything, even down to the very air that they must "unfortunately" breathe. That is just a sign of a person who will "never" be satisfied which is besides the point and another topic :).  Today I came out to my porch, looked up into the sky and thought of all the wonderful things that I have to be grateful for. Of course I have issues, everyone does!! Its factual that all bad or even good things can be worse. That being said.....Its important that we VALUE the present and every ounce of GOOD that exists in our lives or we could find ourselves forever trapped by the burdens of our own greediness. Love lots Dee  ...Next time.