Good Conversation......

I have been with the same man for 5yrs and its ending ? Well honestly I am not surprised especially since I was not very happy. I just thought that I should wait it out and see if anything would "change", Big mistake!! The only thing that I could get from my spirit after praying about it was that I prolonged a season which should have ended a while ago. Sometimes people, places or even things are only meant to be apart of us for a short while for whatever reason. It's  Divine Order  or just the way that God has planned it to be. But when you go screwing around with it, its likely to bite you right in the arse!! I am picking up the pieces as we speak, and its a task!! So please take my advise.. If something deep down in your gut is telling you to move on from it, DO IT!!! Don't   waste ANY time cause it could cost ya!! Love Lots, Dee

Finding LOVE is not easy when you have a hopeless mindset which was brought on by being hurt and mistreated in previous relationships. The most important thing to do is give your self time to heal!!! This is the most important part. Allowing time to process and digest the fact that the previous relationship is really over makes more room for new feelings and new interest!  Its like moving into a new place that has all of the old families belongings still on the premises.  Clean house and you'd be more apt to find a serious love interest. People who have been burned are easy to spot, so its almost guaranteed that any person that you may be schmoozing up to can tell that your damaged goods before you can even get close enough to say "Boo". Get clear on exactly what it is that you are looking for. Some people don't even know what they want but wonder what they can't find fulfillm...