Good Conversation......

 Ending a relationship that is not good for you sounds easy but can be difficult. There is one real thing that you have to do to finally walk away. Make up your mind PERIOD! Seriously sit down and in your mind ask your self these questions: Can I be my best self with this person? Is this relationship beneficial to them more than me? Are you happy to see yourself with this person in the future with out a doubt? When you come to terms with those things and just basically make a conscious decision to do what you need to do for you, everything else falls into place. A lot of people sabotage themselves by staying years in a bad relationship because they don't want to look like "the bad guy" or they don't want to be "uncomfortable". Maybe other aspects of the relationship work for them but they generally are miserable. Perhaps the spouse's family is really nice but the days at home are dreadful.  When you drag this process on it results in a...

I would like to consider my self what most people call sensitive or easily stimulated. Yep, what you just read, that's pretty dramatic!? Anyway, to the point of this post, as humans we always find it easier to kick and scream our way through life, especially in unpleasant moments. It is probably easier to use our emotions to rid ourselves of the "feelings" then to ponder on what is actually going on.  I know how this sounds, but listen, this is just a bit of learned advice that I would like to share - smile.  A lot of times, if not all of the time our emotions make our lives what they are. Are you with me?  This resonates with me specifically because of what you read in the beginning of this post.  When you are a person who "feels" everything it is very necessary to be patient with curve balls that come to "wake us" in life.  There are specific reasons for everything.  Be honest with your s...