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I would like to consider my self what most people call sensitive or easily stimulated. Yep, what you just read, that's pretty dramatic!? Anyway, to the point of this post, as humans we always find it easier to kick and scream our way through life, especially in unpleasant moments. It is probably easier to use our emotions to rid ourselves of the "feelings" then to ponder on what is actually going on.  I know how this sounds, but listen, this is just a bit of learned advice that I would like to share - smile.  A lot of times, if not all of the time our emotions make our lives what they are. Are you with me?  This resonates with me specifically because of what you read in the beginning of this post.  When you are a person who "feels" everything it is very necessary to be patient with curve balls that come to "wake us" in life.  There are specific reasons for everything.  Be honest with your s...

      As we  grow older and things develop and change in our lives many things become apparent to us! We learn things through experience that we could not learn without. Speaking as a person who is still learning and growing into the BEST person that she can be, I want to share with you how I got through the storms in my life. There are somethings that you need to start out with if you want to push through and prevail. 1. Confidence - be sure of yourself all of the time - no exceptions 2. Positive thinking - praise only the good things all of the time 3. Motivation - tell your self that your are in charge and you have got to MAKE things happen 4 Discipline - You are your boss. Strength is built in discipline!- no excuses These things will keep you on top as you go over each hurdle in life! BE POSITIVE. Find the good in everything! Once you change you way of thinking everything becomes new and easy! Life is only as hard as you allow it to be. You have ...

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...