Good Conversation......

 Ending a relationship that is not good for you sounds easy but can be difficult. There is one real thing that you have to do to finally walk away. Make up your mind PERIOD! Seriously sit down and in your mind ask your self these questions: Can I be my best self with this person? Is this relationship beneficial to them more than me? Are you happy to see yourself with this person in the future with out a doubt? When you come to terms with those things and just basically make a conscious decision to do what you need to do for you, everything else falls into place. A lot of people sabotage themselves by staying years in a bad relationship because they don't want to look like "the bad guy" or they don't want to be "uncomfortable". Maybe other aspects of the relationship work for them but they generally are miserable. Perhaps the spouse's family is really nice but the days at home are dreadful.  When you drag this process on it results in a...

I have been with the same man for 5yrs and its ending ? Well honestly I am not surprised especially since I was not very happy. I just thought that I should wait it out and see if anything would "change", Big mistake!! The only thing that I could get from my spirit after praying about it was that I prolonged a season which should have ended a while ago. Sometimes people, places or even things are only meant to be apart of us for a short while for whatever reason. It's  Divine Order  or just the way that God has planned it to be. But when you go screwing around with it, its likely to bite you right in the arse!! I am picking up the pieces as we speak, and its a task!! So please take my advise.. If something deep down in your gut is telling you to move on from it, DO IT!!! Don't   waste ANY time cause it could cost ya!! Love Lots, Dee