- Patience before Death -

~~I would like to consider my self what most people call sensitive or easily stimulated.~~

Yep, what you just read, that's pretty dramatic!?

Anyway, to the point of this post, as humans we always find it easier to kick and scream our way through life, especially in unpleasant moments.

It is probably easier to use our emotions to rid ourselves of the "feelings" then to ponder on what is actually going on.

I know how this sounds, but listen, this is just a bit of learned advice that I would like to share - smile.

A lot of times, if not all of the time our emotions make our lives what they are. Are you with me?

This resonates with me specifically because of what you read in the beginning of this post.

When you are a person who "feels" everything it is very necessary to be patient with curve balls that come to "wake us" in life.

There are specific reasons for everything.

Be honest with your self, is this something that you could have prevented? Is this a situation that you should have avoided?

The title above reads "Patience before Death".

This means to take your time to analyse and critique yourself in life and as you go through it.

REFLECT

It is the most powerful thing and costs nothing.

People spend thousands of dollars on psychics and readings to know what they can see themselves.

Sure, those things are fun but life is real and the outcome of some of the decisions we make can be life-changing.

Learn from your experiences and then learn some more.

THINK

This is not only a nudge to know your purpose in life but to practice poise in the face of distress. Be balanced in this. I like to meditate. The most common place is the bathroom - lol. This helps me learn to purposefully use my emotions.

BUT, anyway that's my token, note, and/or the "pass it on" for the day!"

A mind that is awake, sees what those that sleep, can only dream - URs truly

DEE - love lots

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