Good Conversation......

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...

Hello People!!!! I was online reading random blogs and a thought came to my head. I was thinking about relationships. I remembered stories of mine about when I was having trouble in a relationship and before I knew it I was dating another person. Is this another form of promiscuity or does the fact that a woman will claim to be in a relationship each time they move on change the concept?   After growing up and finding myself, I see it as most of us young women looking for the wrong thing in the wrong men. Is there an intention to be a "whore" or be promiscuous, for some women, absolutely !! But for most, they are just lost young women looking for things in the wrong places. I know I used to be her !!! Nobody is an open book! All we see is the cover! So before you judge a young woman on her background or history, make sure she didn't/doesn't need help, a conversation may change her life. If you know what I mean. ~ inspire ~ Love lots..... Until Next time......