Good Conversation......

Remember when we were children or even teenagers, we had no clue what "we" were all about !!(0_0) I mean, speaking for my self, I had so many phases its ridiculous.--lol I was a tomboy, a girly girl, a sophisticated lil lady, then finally who I am today; plain, easy going , down to earth "Dee". Silly as it sounds it took all that to help me find who I am, along with the experience of life itself, trail with tribulations and the joys of course. The point that I am trying to make is that once you find your purpose and you figure out who you are, its very important to expand on that for the rest of your life in order to get the most out of it! Letting others decide on who you are can lead to unhappiness , bitterness, failure, low self-esteem and even depression. Its ridiculous to let any other person who has their own life depict or direct...

After being in a handful of relationships and experiencing different things each time, I have come to ask myself "............ will I ever be completely satisfied or will I always have to deal with something ?" When I say "something" I don't mean small things; I'm talking attitude, jealousy, laziness, selfishness, etc . When is it OK to compromise? As a women and yes I am talking to you ladies, WE ALREADY KNOW WHAT WE CAN AND CAN NOT TOLERATE. Still through love we are inclined to give it a chance. So this brings me back to the question. Just because we may have to deal with a certain "bad" personality trait, does it make your relationship less then perfect? I would love to hear from you ladies and guys too! So here's what I think.... I don't think that a "defective" personality( who's to say its not you) trait would cause much of a problem, especially if the two of you really love each other. I do believe that as lon...