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I know that the title sounds very cliche but trust me when I say that once I truly understood my own sexuality it was like I was reborn again. I came out to the entire world July 2016, after 36 years of living in denial . It was the best day of my life! I will never forget the day I felt the change from the inside of me. At that moment I was free! Only when a person has experienced such a transition can it be understood with out it sounding like a bunch of Bullshit. Especially since I have three kids and have previously been with men. How can I call my self a lesbian without it looking like I am confused? I think its important to state the obvious because people now-a-day's people are very superficial and judgmental. I find it genuine to state what the average person would immediately assume. But truly and from my heart, I would encourage any human being not to trot around their entire life in a shell that has the exterior to please society while internally suffocating wi...

I would like to consider my self what most people call sensitive or easily stimulated. Yep, what you just read, that's pretty dramatic!? Anyway, to the point of this post, as humans we always find it easier to kick and scream our way through life, especially in unpleasant moments. It is probably easier to use our emotions to rid ourselves of the "feelings" then to ponder on what is actually going on.  I know how this sounds, but listen, this is just a bit of learned advice that I would like to share - smile.  A lot of times, if not all of the time our emotions make our lives what they are. Are you with me?  This resonates with me specifically because of what you read in the beginning of this post.  When you are a person who "feels" everything it is very necessary to be patient with curve balls that come to "wake us" in life.  There are specific reasons for everything.  Be honest with your s...

My Mission Statement : The True Maturity Today is June 14, 2014! I am aware and alive !! It is the most wonderful thing that I have had happen to me, in my entire life! I know how much this existence is worth and I refuse to take any part of it for granted!                                                 CALL ME CRAZY but let it give me freedom...... In my world there is magic and it brings everything to life. All things that I see, hear, touch and feel in my space are of importance and have significance to my position at any given moment. If I continue to move until I reach my last,                                                 I am sure to live my life in fulfillment! Love lots, Dee

      As we  grow older and things develop and change in our lives many things become apparent to us! We learn things through experience that we could not learn without. Speaking as a person who is still learning and growing into the BEST person that she can be, I want to share with you how I got through the storms in my life. There are somethings that you need to start out with if you want to push through and prevail. 1. Confidence - be sure of yourself all of the time - no exceptions 2. Positive thinking - praise only the good things all of the time 3. Motivation - tell your self that your are in charge and you have got to MAKE things happen 4 Discipline - You are your boss. Strength is built in discipline!- no excuses These things will keep you on top as you go over each hurdle in life! BE POSITIVE. Find the good in everything! Once you change you way of thinking everything becomes new and easy! Life is only as hard as you allow it to be. You have ...

I have been with the same man for 5yrs and its ending ? Well honestly I am not surprised especially since I was not very happy. I just thought that I should wait it out and see if anything would "change", Big mistake!! The only thing that I could get from my spirit after praying about it was that I prolonged a season which should have ended a while ago. Sometimes people, places or even things are only meant to be apart of us for a short while for whatever reason. It's  Divine Order  or just the way that God has planned it to be. But when you go screwing around with it, its likely to bite you right in the arse!! I am picking up the pieces as we speak, and its a task!! So please take my advise.. If something deep down in your gut is telling you to move on from it, DO IT!!! Don't   waste ANY time cause it could cost ya!! Love Lots, Dee

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...