Good Conversation......

Remember when we were children or even teenagers, we had no clue what "we" were all about !!(0_0) I mean, speaking for my self, I had so many phases its ridiculous.--lol I was a tomboy, a girly girl, a sophisticated lil lady, then finally who I am today; plain, easy going , down to earth "Dee". Silly as it sounds it took all that to help me find who I am, along with the experience of life itself, trail with tribulations and the joys of course. The point that I am trying to make is that once you find your purpose and you figure out who you are, its very important to expand on that for the rest of your life in order to get the most out of it! Letting others decide on who you are can lead to unhappiness , bitterness, failure, low self-esteem and even depression. Its ridiculous to let any other person who has their own life depict or direct...

Hello People!!!! I was online reading random blogs and a thought came to my head. I was thinking about relationships. I remembered stories of mine about when I was having trouble in a relationship and before I knew it I was dating another person. Is this another form of promiscuity or does the fact that a woman will claim to be in a relationship each time they move on change the concept?   After growing up and finding myself, I see it as most of us young women looking for the wrong thing in the wrong men. Is there an intention to be a "whore" or be promiscuous, for some women, absolutely !! But for most, they are just lost young women looking for things in the wrong places. I know I used to be her !!! Nobody is an open book! All we see is the cover! So before you judge a young woman on her background or history, make sure she didn't/doesn't need help, a conversation may change her life. If you know what I mean. ~ inspire ~ Love lots..... Until Next time......

It seems like, as soon as we hit puberty  or maybe before, we "know the world". I mean no one can tell us anything, not even whats good for us. Then when we hit a certain age we realize that we didn't know much of anything and we were lucky we made as far as we did .  When we are growing into ourselves it is very difficult to tell if we are doing the right things because we don't yet know who we are.  It took me as long as my third child to really grow up(10 yrs)(0_0). As sad as it sounds its pretty REAL. These days its hard to judge because you really never know what a person has gone through or what has happened to them that caused them to stagnate. A person has to go through things to develop. The things that we endure end up molding us into who we are. Today , I am a down to earth , moderately social young lady. However, I enjoy staying to myself because I'm less exhausted mentally. LOL.... strange but ...