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Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...

Please take a moment to follow my blog! You may not need to be inspired but someone that you know may need to be.  I have been blessed to motivate, activate , ignite, and inspire!  I can only do this with the help of others. When I leave this place I want to be remembered as a person who changed lives! Will you help me inspire? Subscribe Today! Love Lots, Dee

As moms, moguls, divas, entrepreneurs, wives or just us plain Jane's; we are busy as women of today. We often take very little time for ourselves. Whether its taking care of kids, event planning or getting ready for a power meeting we have almost no time if any to take a deep breath and clear our minds. I have come to the conclusion that without out a meditation session or just a day of home stay can leave us near our wits end or even worse, post nervous breakdown. Take a break , listen to your body when it tells you that you need to rest. Listen to your mind when you start to ramble your thoughts. Its  OK , especially since in order to conquer all that you dream of, you must be sane, of appropriate health and fired up to do it all....so "I say love yourself enough to enjoy a little of YOUR life". till Next time! Dee

People always confuse the more is more scenario, thinking that less could not possibly satisfy them, when they actually have everything that they need. Have you ever heard that person who complains about everything, even down to the very air that they must "unfortunately" breathe. That is just a sign of a person who will "never" be satisfied which is besides the point and another topic :).  Today I came out to my porch, looked up into the sky and thought of all the wonderful things that I have to be grateful for. Of course I have issues, everyone does!! Its factual that all bad or even good things can be worse. That being said.....Its important that we VALUE the present and every ounce of GOOD that exists in our lives or we could find ourselves forever trapped by the burdens of our own greediness. Love lots Dee  ...Next time.

Remember when we were children or even teenagers, we had no clue what "we" were all about !!(0_0) I mean, speaking for my self, I had so many phases its ridiculous.--lol I was a tomboy, a girly girl, a sophisticated lil lady, then finally who I am today; plain, easy going , down to earth "Dee". Silly as it sounds it took all that to help me find who I am, along with the experience of life itself, trail with tribulations and the joys of course. The point that I am trying to make is that once you find your purpose and you figure out who you are, its very important to expand on that for the rest of your life in order to get the most out of it! Letting others decide on who you are can lead to unhappiness , bitterness, failure, low self-esteem and even depression. Its ridiculous to let any other person who has their own life depict or direct...

Hello People!!!! I was online reading random blogs and a thought came to my head. I was thinking about relationships. I remembered stories of mine about when I was having trouble in a relationship and before I knew it I was dating another person. Is this another form of promiscuity or does the fact that a woman will claim to be in a relationship each time they move on change the concept?   After growing up and finding myself, I see it as most of us young women looking for the wrong thing in the wrong men. Is there an intention to be a "whore" or be promiscuous, for some women, absolutely !! But for most, they are just lost young women looking for things in the wrong places. I know I used to be her !!! Nobody is an open book! All we see is the cover! So before you judge a young woman on her background or history, make sure she didn't/doesn't need help, a conversation may change her life. If you know what I mean. ~ inspire ~ Love lots..... Until Next time......