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Failure to Launch



When is it time to break away from the protective arms of our parents into this cruel and defiant world? Is there a time frame or is it different for everyone? Guess what, your opportunity depends on how soon you jump in or....out lol!! We often wonder why animals push or in some instances leave their young. Its simple, experience is the best teacher ! You have to get out there and break away in order to develop your own sense of life and living. So the longer you let your parents lead your life the harder it will be for you to  gain REAL control of your life!!  Trust me, experience has taught me this very important life lesson!!! Don't get me wrong here, parents are always good teachers but experience always has a result that we can learn first hand from; this allows us to become our OWN person!  Its like a seed:  you plant it, tend to and nurture it but when the time is right you must allow it to grow or you will hinder its ability to thrive on its own!....




Experience learning to live!!

Love lots

DEE




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  1. AnonymousOctober 18, 2012 at 8:57 PM

    Life Is not always this complicated!

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  2. DeeFebruary 3, 2013 at 10:33 AM

    Thank you for your comment! This is true, But for some maybe even for the moment ,it is this complicated. Open your mind!(saying this in all respect) Everyone's reality is different.

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