Good Conversation......

By the time most of us are considered "Grown Up" we are molded into the person that we will be as an "adult". The things that we have learned can then be passed on to our children and our children's children. One of those things that I have learned about is the power of trust!  That its the one word can break the toughest of bonds and shatter the best of relationships. Blood cannot change the rules either, once you lose the trust of a loved one you can either choose to let go or work tremendously hard to get it back. One thing that confuses me though is the fact that  guilt  can mimic a lack of trust. A persons guilt can rot their heart; poisoning their minds into believing that whatever they have done to others will eventually happen to them. So a long history of paranoia, worrying, skepticism and never ending doubt is their life sentence. Unfortunately, this hurts the one who really loves them and eventua...

It seems like, as soon as we hit puberty  or maybe before, we "know the world". I mean no one can tell us anything, not even whats good for us. Then when we hit a certain age we realize that we didn't know much of anything and we were lucky we made as far as we did .  When we are growing into ourselves it is very difficult to tell if we are doing the right things because we don't yet know who we are.  It took me as long as my third child to really grow up(10 yrs)(0_0). As sad as it sounds its pretty REAL. These days its hard to judge because you really never know what a person has gone through or what has happened to them that caused them to stagnate. A person has to go through things to develop. The things that we endure end up molding us into who we are. Today , I am a down to earth , moderately social young lady. However, I enjoy staying to myself because I'm less exhausted mentally. LOL.... strange but ...