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My Mission Statement : The True Maturity Today is June 14, 2014! I am aware and alive !! It is the most wonderful thing that I have had happen to me, in my entire life! I know how much this existence is worth and I refuse to take any part of it for granted!                                                 CALL ME CRAZY but let it give me freedom...... In my world there is magic and it brings everything to life. All things that I see, hear, touch and feel in my space are of importance and have significance to my position at any given moment. If I continue to move until I reach my last,                                                 I am sure to live my life in fulfillment! Love lots, Dee

Sometimes we think our children need to be coddled, nursed, or even protected when they don't . As parents we must understand that parenting is not all about keeping our children happy. So when we don't face issues head on that we have with our children, those same issues can grow into life challenges for them. Tough love...not abuse...lol, is very important and is a needed discipline that helps to correct behavior issues and allow our children to become independent people. So sugar coating and making excuses for why our children do things that they should not, facilitates the problem and helps it to persist longer. We don't have to do everything for our children!!! Let them develop their own strengths and weaknesses, not ones that we create by doing everything for them. Stop that cycle now, before its too late! And you have reached the level of stress that brings you to your knees.. !! Seriously, love lots p...