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I am not going to start this off like I am a therapist and say "life is blah blah blah".  I am going to ask you to : Just take a moment and think of anything good that has happened to you or anyone/thing that truly means the world to you and let it/that manifest itself as your strength! Individually we all have had ups and downs and have gone through what can make us or break us. I personally have been forced to change.  Yes, I said it ! My life has forced me to become aggressive and more of a leader. Its OK because I accept that. Now all  that I have to do is figure out how I can make the change GREAT ! Don't despair when life tells you that its time for a change. Grab hold to it as if it were a locomotive transition to a better you! Make everything you do great by embracing change to its fullest!  Remember there will be joy, there will be pain , there will be disappointments and there will be times of tribulation but its only a transition to a bet...

Finding LOVE is not easy when you have a hopeless mindset which was brought on by being hurt and mistreated in previous relationships. The most important thing to do is give your self time to heal!!! This is the most important part. Allowing time to process and digest the fact that the previous relationship is really over makes more room for new feelings and new interest!  Its like moving into a new place that has all of the old families belongings still on the premises.  Clean house and you'd be more apt to find a serious love interest. People who have been burned are easy to spot, so its almost guaranteed that any person that you may be schmoozing up to can tell that your damaged goods before you can even get close enough to say "Boo". Get clear on exactly what it is that you are looking for. Some people don't even know what they want but wonder what they can't find fulfillm...

Sometimes we think our children need to be coddled, nursed, or even protected when they don't . As parents we must understand that parenting is not all about keeping our children happy. So when we don't face issues head on that we have with our children, those same issues can grow into life challenges for them. Tough love...not abuse...lol, is very important and is a needed discipline that helps to correct behavior issues and allow our children to become independent people. So sugar coating and making excuses for why our children do things that they should not, facilitates the problem and helps it to persist longer. We don't have to do everything for our children!!! Let them develop their own strengths and weaknesses, not ones that we create by doing everything for them. Stop that cycle now, before its too late! And you have reached the level of stress that brings you to your knees.. !! Seriously, love lots p...

When is it time to break away from the protective arms of our parents into this cruel and defiant world? Is there a time frame or is it different for everyone? Guess what, your opportunity depends on how soon you jump in or....out lol!! We often wonder why animals push or in some instances leave their young. Its simple, experience is the best teacher ! You have to get out there and break away in order to develop your own sense of life and living. So the longer you let your parents lead your life the harder it will be for you to  gain REAL control of your life!!  Trust me,  experience  has taught me this very important life lesson!!! Don't get me wrong here, parents are always good teachers but experience always has a result that we can learn first hand from; this allows us to become our OWN person!  Its like a seed:  you plant it, tend to and nurture it but when the time is right you ...

People often complain about what they don't have and what is not enough, not realizing that the simplest things can be compromised and cripple us for life..... What have you taken advantage of today, what could have been worse but turned out "Well Enough" ! Be thankful. ...recognize Gods Grace upon Your life Today!!!  Love Lots, Dee

First, let me start by saying that I am not a licensed therapist or a doctor with a mental medical degree. I am an expert on my life and I would like to share with you all how I was able to  get an understanding of self fulfillment and a life of happiness! 1.   Realize that you can control your own happiness! If all that existed in the worl d as we know it should perish, what would save you, what would keep you thriving?! 2.  Take advice as friendly suggestions, not an outline on how to live your life! When we have close friends and family we look to them for advice about many things. But there is nothing worse then screwing up all the time, because we cannot make our OWN decisions! 3.  Choose your battles wisely! I have never seen a person who picked and picked and kicked and screamed, get anything but a pacifier and diaper change!  A person who realizes their peac...