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      As we  grow older and things develop and change in our lives many things become apparent to us! We learn things through experience that we could not learn without. Speaking as a person who is still learning and growing into the BEST person that she can be, I want to share with you how I got through the storms in my life. There are somethings that you need to start out with if you want to push through and prevail. 1. Confidence - be sure of yourself all of the time - no exceptions 2. Positive thinking - praise only the good things all of the time 3. Motivation - tell your self that your are in charge and you have got to MAKE things happen 4 Discipline - You are your boss. Strength is built in discipline!- no excuses These things will keep you on top as you go over each hurdle in life! BE POSITIVE. Find the good in everything! Once you change you way of thinking everything becomes new and easy! Life is only as hard as you allow it to be. You have ...

I have been with the same man for 5yrs and its ending ? Well honestly I am not surprised especially since I was not very happy. I just thought that I should wait it out and see if anything would "change", Big mistake!! The only thing that I could get from my spirit after praying about it was that I prolonged a season which should have ended a while ago. Sometimes people, places or even things are only meant to be apart of us for a short while for whatever reason. It's  Divine Order  or just the way that God has planned it to be. But when you go screwing around with it, its likely to bite you right in the arse!! I am picking up the pieces as we speak, and its a task!! So please take my advise.. If something deep down in your gut is telling you to move on from it, DO IT!!! Don't   waste ANY time cause it could cost ya!! Love Lots, Dee

Finding love is always a challenge when your looking for a ?!  You are unsure about yourself , insecure about your body,  and feeling less than. So you think the answer is searching for love?? See,  its natural to think that if you find someone to love you, then all of your problems will be solved. So many of us learn the hard way, when we find out that we can hurt the ones we love including ourselves by simply not loving who we are. The chip in your tooth, the back fat, your freckles or your big fat lips...embrace these flaws. The imperfections are what make us unique. Learn to love your own beauty, not the airbrushed beauty you see on the big manipulated screen . Once you have a healthy self-esteem then you can make sound choices concerning love, relationships and even beauty enhancement. Get the confidence to OWN your present self before you begin to build the future you. How else do you expect to get there!! And Waittt! Whoa... Don't drag a potential life...

Please take a moment to follow my blog! You may not need to be inspired but someone that you know may need to be.  I have been blessed to motivate, activate , ignite, and inspire!  I can only do this with the help of others. When I leave this place I want to be remembered as a person who changed lives! Will you help me inspire? Subscribe Today! Love Lots, Dee

I am not going to start this off like I am a therapist and say "life is blah blah blah".  I am going to ask you to : Just take a moment and think of anything good that has happened to you or anyone/thing that truly means the world to you and let it/that manifest itself as your strength! Individually we all have had ups and downs and have gone through what can make us or break us. I personally have been forced to change.  Yes, I said it ! My life has forced me to become aggressive and more of a leader. Its OK because I accept that. Now all  that I have to do is figure out how I can make the change GREAT ! Don't despair when life tells you that its time for a change. Grab hold to it as if it were a locomotive transition to a better you! Make everything you do great by embracing change to its fullest!  Remember there will be joy, there will be pain , there will be disappointments and there will be times of tribulation but its only a transition to a bet...

Finding LOVE is not easy when you have a hopeless mindset which was brought on by being hurt and mistreated in previous relationships. The most important thing to do is give your self time to heal!!! This is the most important part. Allowing time to process and digest the fact that the previous relationship is really over makes more room for new feelings and new interest!  Its like moving into a new place that has all of the old families belongings still on the premises.  Clean house and you'd be more apt to find a serious love interest. People who have been burned are easy to spot, so its almost guaranteed that any person that you may be schmoozing up to can tell that your damaged goods before you can even get close enough to say "Boo". Get clear on exactly what it is that you are looking for. Some people don't even know what they want but wonder what they can't find fulfillm...

Sometimes we think our children need to be coddled, nursed, or even protected when they don't . As parents we must understand that parenting is not all about keeping our children happy. So when we don't face issues head on that we have with our children, those same issues can grow into life challenges for them. Tough love...not abuse...lol, is very important and is a needed discipline that helps to correct behavior issues and allow our children to become independent people. So sugar coating and making excuses for why our children do things that they should not, facilitates the problem and helps it to persist longer. We don't have to do everything for our children!!! Let them develop their own strengths and weaknesses, not ones that we create by doing everything for them. Stop that cycle now, before its too late! And you have reached the level of stress that brings you to your knees.. !! Seriously, love lots p...